We need to give ourselves permission to say no to good things, so we have the energy to say YES to the tasks that God has designed for us to do. We need to say no without feeling guilty, but instead, to be willing to give what we have the capacity to give (no, I can't make 100 cupcakes for the fundraiser this weekend, but I don't mind making a dozen or two) (no, I can't come help in the class every week, but I would love to come the first Tuesday of each month!).
Self care is not selfish. Self care is taking care of our hearts, minds and bodies, so we have the physical, mental, spiritual and emotional energy to take care of our hubbies, our kiddos, and the other important things that God wants us to do.
Pray that God would help you clearly see the mission he has on the horizon for you. Pray that he would help you clearly see what tasks you need to do, what needs to go on the backburner, and what you need to say no to. Pray that God would refresh your mind, body and soul, so you can do HIS good works and give him glory. Pray that he would use these broken vessels of ours, fill them up with HIS strength, and use us to shine light in this dark world.